Seven major problems to face after running three 80s
Once, we were proud of our lofty ideals, walking in strange cities, just looking for the truest dreams deep in our hearts.
In the past, no matter how difficult life was, I thought that if I worked hard, I would succeed.
Once, I simply thought that even a small room can manage my most beautiful love.
When the cause is still busy, and when love has become emptier, will the post-80s generation still say that young people are not afraid of failure?
The youth was frivolous, long gone.
All the youth and glory, gone with the wind.
After the 80’s, we have started to stand on the tail of the 20-year-old, facing the thirties, how many people can hold their heads up, and swear that we are still young.
Yes, youth is capital. Faced with the post-90s force, are we still young?
One day, I discovered that it turned out that we, the 80s, were already old.
We are no longer frivolous, we are no longer chic, we are no longer frank, we are no longer smiling, we have pressure on life, we have fear of marriage, we have disappointment about the future, and we have a difficulty to stop.
Facing work: We have no more passion, we just want to have a stable job.
Risky jobs have been excluded. Once we were ten thousand to ten thousand who were unwilling to find a job in a relationship. In the face of the dullness of our career, we could n’t even provide ourselves with sufficient income, so we had to choose to give in and let go.The proudest face began to seek to maximize the interpersonal relationship.
The hard work is nothing to fear for us, and it is important to continue this work.
Facing emotions: Marriage is no longer regarded as a sublimation of love, or marriage is regarded as a relationship.
We no longer long for a romantic and exciting love, instead of expecting a happy and happy marriage.
It used to be stubborn that the blind date was just the marriage method of the post-70s, or earlier generations, and until now I discovered that the blind date has become the mainstream way of marriage after the 80s.
A blind date on the ground, a second despair, has caused numbness and excursion to the blind date, but still ran on the blind date.
The friend said, “I am either on a blind date or on my way.
Facing entertainment: I suddenly found that the frequency of mobile phone use is getting less and less, and text messages are getting less and less. Sometimes, they are even reluctant to send text messages, preferring to make a phone call and hang up in a hurry.
QQ didn’t stop flashing like it used to, and withdrew from many groups. Some groups were hampered by face, and they were always blocked. They only occasionally chose a few groups to chat and then hide.
I will never play for a game anymore, often holding a book and watching quietly.
Face social: When more and more friends have a family, they have no courage to talk with them about life, because in their mouth, it is all about family, and single people pay more attention to personal emotions.Expressing.
KTV no longer likes the bars that once loved it. It can’t stand the noisy and crazy environment. I prefer to sit in a coffee shop or teahouse, read books, listen to music, enjoy the bitterness of coffee, or tea.Fragrance.
Facing the wear: We who have paid too much attention to the feeling of the brand have become unfamiliar with the brand. The expensive clothes in the cabinet have made the working class have no courage to try again.
After making money, I realized how difficult life was.
We no longer pay attention to the brand, but pay more attention to the quality and use of clothes. For occasions that are suitable for wearing, we will no longer fight for discounted clothes because of the impulse. The clothes are not more than decent.
The right thing is what we need. The brand is nothing more than an illusion.
Facing shopping: When you are shopping, you always think about whether there are any gifts, and you wo n’t buy them when you look at them.
It’s no longer the case to buy something that you don’t like in order to get a gift.
Shopping is no longer shopping, but it has become a purposeful behavior. After buying what you want, you leave in a hurry.
Some beautiful, exquisite small items are just put back after you appreciate it on the counter, and you will never put it back in the box.
Facing the family: Family goes beyond love and friendship, and everything puts the family first.
Without the original impulse, I knew the hard work of my parents and knew how to help them.
The relationship between the simple family suddenly became clear on some days, and the relationship between people has been understood. It has not always been that simple. The most worthy of belief is besides parents and yourself.
Increasingly annoying, visiting relatives and friends, because there will always be many people’s problems, a certain problem about marriage.
In the face of everything, we have learned to think carefully. There is no fairy tale in our hearts.
We in the post-80s generation have begun to admit that we are old, without the youth of the post-90s generation, without the passion of the post-90s generation, all we have is the tired heart running around for life.
Occasionally smiled and told myself: Thirty-year-old man, my good years have just begun.After the 80’s, we played a hearty ball, and we were all overwhelmed and weak.
For a long time without exercise, he began to show bloated beer belly.
After 90s, they grew up and became more responsible. Their passion and vitality moved many people around them.
The stage of society began to be built for them. On the big stage, there were their dancing and the eyes we admired.
I can’t help sighing: It turns out that we all have been old since the 80s, but we have been reluctant to serve the old.